Kim Flagor and I attended a workshop on Human Trafficking at our annual counseling conference back in November. We were really moved by the terrible and sad information we learned. It stuck with us. Just this week, I had the chance to go to another presentation on Human Trafficking by a local group that works to help young women get their lives back after being rescued from trafficking. Again....I was deeply moved. Soon, our counseling staff will hear from a third group, this time a group that helps get the message out to our teens and students as to what Human Trafficking is and why it matters to them. In other words, Human Trafficking is a big deal. But why? And why in little ol' Carlisle? Well, here are a few main reasons (in no particular order...they are all important!)
First of all, what is Human Trafficking?
Human trafficking is modern-day slavery
and involves the use of force, fraud, or coercion to obtain some type of labor
or commercial sex act.
It also happens to be the 2nd most profitable crime in the world, only trailing drug trafficking (although it
could someday overtake that based on the rate it is growing)
So, now that we know what it is, why does it matter to us?
1. Iowa has the 5th highest rate of human
trafficking in the country. That means only 4 states have a larger trafficking
issue than us. This is likely due to the intersection of I35 and I80...too interstate
systems that criss-cross the entire country. Our mental health facilities (or
lack of) is another key reason. And a final reason is drug trafficking in our
state which typically goes hand in hand with human trafficking. Dorothy's House
presentation noted that heroin is on a major rise in our state because it is
cheap and addictive and this is one of the drugs key to the trafficking issue.
2. But we are not just talking about our young girls (and often boys as well)
being stolen or abducted and taken out of state. Up to 80% of human trafficking
is "Familial Trafficking". This means a majority of trafficking of
our young people is done by their own family. Their mothers, fathers,
step-parents, foster parents, older siblings, etc. They are selling their own
child's body multiple times a day for money to pay rent or for a drug
habit.
3. According to Dorothy's House, guess who is the most popular victim to
traffic? A 12-14 year old girl that is tall, skinny, and blond and right from
the Des Moines area. We aren't talking 18 year olds and 20 year olds. We aren't
talking kids from Chicago or LA. We are talking our kids. Our pre-teens and
teenagers. As a father of 5....that matters to me!
4. 1 in 3 teens on the street will be lured by a trafficker within 48 hours. We
have runaways in our school district from time to time. It is scary to think of
several of these students being approached by a trafficker. Many of these young
people who are approached will accept the "help" they get and soon be
into a trafficking situation they cannot escape from.
5. The average age of a child victim in human trafficking and prostitution is
13-14 years old. In our district, we have roughly 300 students at that age
level.
6. Speaking of the average victim....the average victim may be forced to have
sex up to 20-48 times a day. Young girls and women who happen to survive and
make it out of these situations many times need reconstructive surgery,
immediate and long-term mental health therapy, and addiction treatment. Even if
everything works extremely well, it is tough for these girls and boys to live a
normal life due to the intense and long-term trauma they were surviving
through.
7. Most common way a girl gets into trafficking? They are
"boyfriended" in. In other words, a "nice" boy slowly gets
to know a girl in that age 11-15 range (sometimes older) and grooms the girl.
This is many times done online. The girl thinks the boy is her age or thinks he
is really wanting to be a boyfriend. Many times the boy is much older, usually
a man well past his teenage years. They arrange a meeting and the rest is a
very sad, sad situation. The girls typically never see it coming......
.....But her friends do. Her family does. Her teachers do. Her
neighbors do. If.....if they are involved in her life and being supportive and
caring and not letting her get down this path. This is why it matters to us
here in little ol' Carlisle. We have a chance to not let our girls and boys be
a part of these sick statistics. We have a chance to save the lives of some of
our young people. But we must be willing to ask questions and not accept
"fine" or "okay" for an answer. We must be on social media
and checking on our kids. We must know our kids' friends and who our kids think
are their friends. We must get in their business....because their business
matters to us because we love them. And we must educate ourselves on this issue
which has been around forever, but is rapidly increasing due to social media
making it easier to "buy and sell" young people, our transportation
system making it easier to traffic young people quickly and easily, and our
drug and mental health issues on the rise making young girls and boys more
vulnerable to being lured into the world of trafficking. We cannot look the
other way because this topic is too gruesome, too ugly, too tough to read and
hear about. We must turn towards it and towards the solutions because of these
things.
Please click on some of the
links below to learn more. I did not know much about this issue 6-12 months
ago, but I am glad I am learning now. As a counselor, I have dealt with many
students "talking" to a stranger online and many times the
conversations have stopped before it got too far. My worry is what if it
didn't. What would happen. I want to educate myself and others so we can all
help each other and all watch over each other
The Polaris Project
Recognize the Signs
Iowa Networkd Against Human Trafficking
2 comments:
I had someone tell me yrs ago that he was offered $10,000 to grab a girl walking down the street in Marshalltown. He had a full size van. The offer came from a Mexican drug dealer...wanted a young blond girl. The man couldn't do it. Thank God. Also hAve a friend who's niece disappeared yrs ago for yrs. No word nothing. A few yrs later she came back to des moines for a visit. Whole time this man was with her. She had no alone time with her family. Not one second. Her extended family thinks she is a sex slave. Tragic
Thanks to our counselors for this information!
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